Over the years, I’ve written about the importance of having a health care buddy, someone whom you can talk to about your health, who can be another set of eyes and ears at the doctor’s office, someone who can take you to a health care appointment. If you live alone, don’t have a buddy, and need help getting to a medical appointment, Kerri Fivecoat Campbell writes for Next Avenue about what you can do.
If you’re married, you might not have yet thought about the complications that arise when you need someone with you after a hospital discharge or a colonoscopy visit. But, it’s challenging. Our government generally doesn’t have any systems in place to help. It can take a lot of effort.
An Uber or other hired driver won’t help because you need someone to be with you for an extended period after discharge.
Who can you count on when you’re living alone? Lots of people are in this situation. More than one in four adults between 50 and 64 (28 percent) live alone. More than one in three over 65 (36 percent) live alone. Many of them cannot afford to pay someone and so are often forced to skip critical medical care.
While transportation issues always have posed challenges for single people, the situation appears to be worsening. Families are increasingly spread out across the country, and there are fewer social supports in most communities.
How to find help?
If you don’t have family or friends who can serve as a health care buddy, look into the PACE program. There are hundreds across the country, although many have long waitlists. They are designed to help isolated older adults age in place, providing needed community supports. That said, beware of for-profit PACE programs.
It could be worth learning about senior centers and other local community organizations offering services to older adults. You can contact your Area Agency on Aging or you can visit the Eldercare Locator, a government service through the US Administration on Aging, which provides information on local resources.
You might also try contacting your local community college or religious institution. These non-profits might offer volunteer services.
Many communities offer free transportation services and have volunteers who can provide additional support. The challenge is finding them. So plan ahead!!!!
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