I’ve written a bunch about the value of a buddy or buddies to your overall health, as well as the health costs of social isolation. A new piece by Kasley Killam in The Guardian lays out why “social health” is worth paying attention to. In a few words, it is as important as food and water.
Curiously social health remains underappreciated in the US. We tend to focus on exercise, eating right, avoiding alcohol and tobacco and getting a good night’s sleep as the best ways to stay healthy. No question that these activities all improve physical and mental health.
But, social interactions take physical and mental health to a whole other level. We all need people to support us, whether in an emergency or when we’re having a bad day. We need time alone. and we need time with family and friends.
Relationships–both friendships and romantic relationships–as well as simply hanging out with others can lengthen our lives and stave off chronic conditions. When we build relationships with others, we improve our social health. We enhance our self-worth.
There’s been a bunch written of late on the health risks of loneliness. The US Surgeon General called it a public health emergency in 2017. But, there has been less written on the health benefits of relationships. And, the data suggest that Americans are increasingly less healthy socially.
Since the mid-90’s, for example, 2o percent fewer Americans enjoy a cadre of 10 or more close friends. And in the last ten years, 20 percent fewer Americans participate in communities. No question that we are further isolated in the wake of Covid-19.
One national survey found that around 50 percent of Americans felt that they had no close friends or family who understood them.
While the data suggests that Americans are not doing well from a social health perspective, people in other countries are also not doing well on the social health front. One Gallup poll found that, all told, 330 million adults don’t speak with friends or family for weeks at a time. One in five adults around the world say they have no one to connect with if they need help.
Without social connections, the data show that people’s likelihood of stroke increases by 32 percent, dementia likelihood is up 50 percent and premature death by 29 percent. But, 80 percent of people in the US and UK, who lack social relationships do not appreciate the severity of their situation for their health and well-being.
Everyone needs connection and community, whether lonely or not. So, nourish your relationships, don’t ignore them or put them aside. For your health!!!
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